I'm regularly asked to have a coffee, hopefully at a nice café, like Le Canon at Gobelins, and people ask me where they should host their site that is still off-line, or how to reference their site, if they have one online and sometime already paid a huge amount of money to some of the many referencing services available, usually companies who take your money but don't get your site near anywhere on the search engine ranking.
I sometimes do it hoping to get a client, but I realize a coffee doesn't feed me nor will it pay my rent, and although the weather is fine and the girls beautiful, I'd rather spend time tinkering away and hacking some scripts.
Antoine is that way, too, since he sits and listens, as I tell him what to do, realizing that he could a) do his homework and learn something himself by browsing the web, and b) that he will not hire me, now that I gave him pretty much the ABC of basic web hosting and referencing.
Then he asks me in a rather abrupt way what I think of such and such a host who I happen to know and dislike, should I tell him. I shake my head, rise, shake his hand and stoop out onto the trottoir.
Referencing a site seems to puzzle a lot of people who believe they can do it either themselves or pay some company to do it for them. They don't (no they don't!) think of content or graphic design. They don't know anything about metatags or navigation. Well, I started that way, too and it took some time to figure out that none of it is really science, since things change rapidly.
In fact the whole Internet has changed so fast that it's hard to keep up. How can you tell somebody for a coffee how come this is happening?